Embrace Suffering


Think about Jesus as He was going to Calvary.

Think of the different accounts of people saying “he’s not going to make it to the cross, he’s going to die before that,” so they had to have Simon of Cyrene help Him carry the cross…

The lashings… the beatings were so severe…

But Jesus made it to Calvary.

Then… He died. And the soldier’s couldn’t believe He was dead so quickly.

So… seemingly contradictory, right?

But what does it mean?

God’s Divine Love carried His Son through His suffering.

Or… the Divine Love of the Holy Spirit… or Divine Will of the Holy Spirit…

carried Him through to complete His suffering…

so He could complete what He was destined to do…

and once He had accomplished it, He died.

That quickly.

The Divine’s Love escorted the human Jesus through the beatings…

through the torture…

through the suffering…

through the carrying of the cross…

all the way to Calvary…

so He could die when and where He was supposed to die.

Will we embrace our suffering? Will we wrap ourselves in that suffering?

When people say:

“I can’t believe that she stays with her husband!”

“How does she handle the chemo and radiation with such grace?”

“I can’t believe he has the patience to stay with her!”

“I can never imagine losing a child…”

“I can’t believe that she still dotes over her parents so much… the laundry, the bills, the housekeeping… where does she find the energy?”

“Look at what he does for his mother. He changes his mother’s diaper!”

And looking from afar, what should our response be for those people?


Like the women on the way to Calvary when Jesus carried His cross. The women who wept for Him. Veronica, who took the time to wipe the sweat and blood and mud from Jesus’ face.

That’s how we can participate in their suffering. And pray for them.

Say a Rosary. Or a Chaplet of Divine Mercy.

That’s the meaning of it all.

That’s how we can embrace the suffering of Jesus.

That’s one way that we can show mercy for our neighbor. Try to bear their burden, either practically or if that’s not an option, at least symbolically.

Or if we’re living that suffering, to embrace it the best way we can. To ask Jesus… to ask Mary to help us embrace it.

We’re probably going to suffer.

Will we turn it into a redemptive act? Or will we refuse to bear it?


Thanks for taking some of your precious time today to read and listen to my thoughts. My commitment during Lent 2016 is to post a daily video reflection to help you and me on our walk through the season and toward Easter Sunday. I will also explore other matters of faith and also health and fitness to keep us fit for the journey. Click here for my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/davekwiecinski

I appreciate your help and encouragement. Please let me know how I can help you. This is something I’ve been called to do for some time. I’m finally embracing it. Father, forgive me for procrastinating.

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